Unmasking Abuse and Narcissism: The Pandemic’s Impact on Awareness

Jessica Knight, MA, CPCC, NICC
3 min readJan 2, 2024

The COVID-19 pandemic has not only reshaped our daily lives but has also brought to light certain societal issues that were previously overlooked or downplayed. One such issue that has gained significant attention during and after the pandemic is domestic abuse and narcissism. This article explores the reasons behind the increased visibility of these behaviors, the societal factors that contributed to their prevalence, and why discussions around abuse and narcissism have intensified.

I. The Shadow of Isolation:

During the pandemic, lockdowns and social distancing measures isolated individuals, creating an environment conducive to the amplification of existing power imbalances and toxic relationships. As people spent more time at home, away from their support systems and usual activities, they became more susceptible to abusive dynamics. Isolation not only heightened vulnerability but also made it challenging for victims to seek help or escape abusive situations.

II. Economic Strain and Mental Health Challenges:

The economic fallout from the pandemic left many individuals grappling with job loss, financial instability, and uncertainty about the future. Such stressors often exacerbate abusive behaviors as individuals resort to controlling and manipulative tactics to cope with their own anxieties. The intersection of economic strain and deteriorating mental health amplified the prevalence of abusive and narcissistic tendencies, prompting victims and observers to speak out.

III. Increased Online Presence:

The pandemic accelerated the shift towards a more digital existence, with people relying heavily on virtual communication platforms for work, education, and socializing. This increased online presence brought attention to cyber abuse and online narcissistic behaviors, which might have otherwise gone unnoticed. As individuals shared their experiences and observations on social media, a collective awareness emerged, shedding light on the various forms of abuse that can manifest in virtual spaces.

IV. Empowerment Through Shared Experiences:

The shared adversity of the pandemic fostered a sense of solidarity among individuals who had experienced abuse or narcissism. As people began to openly discuss their struggles, survivors found strength in knowing they were not alone. The collective sharing of stories and experiences created a platform for survivors to seek support, offer advice, and raise awareness about the insidious nature of abuse. This empowerment fueled a broader societal conversation on the need for change and prevention.

V. Mental Health Advocacy and Destigmatization:

The pandemic underscored the importance of mental health, prompting increased advocacy and destigmatization efforts. As discussions around mental health gained prominence, so did conversations about the psychological impact of abusive relationships and narcissistic behavior. The destigmatization of seeking therapy and mental health support encouraged individuals to address and share their experiences, contributing to a more open dialogue around abuse.

The COVID-19 pandemic, while presenting unprecedented challenges, has also served as a catalyst for shedding light on previously obscured issues, such as abuse and narcissism. The confluence of isolation, economic strain, increased online presence, shared experiences, and mental health advocacy has fueled a growing awareness and discourse surrounding these harmful behaviors. Moving forward, it is crucial to maintain this momentum, fostering empathy, understanding, and support for those affected while actively working to prevent and combat abuse in all its forms.

Seeking the help of a professional can help you not only identify the signs of abuse relating to your relationship but can help develop a safety plan that will help you break free and begin to heal and live your life as you want.

Recognizing the signs and learning how to heal can be challenging, and you don’t have to take it on alone. I help people learn to break the trauma bond and start on a path to recovery through my Emotional Abuse Breakthrough Course. I’ll walk you through how to identify the signs and learn how to respond in a way that will help you safely and confidently break the bond.

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Jessica Knight, MA, CPCC, NICC

Jessica Knight is a Certified Life Coach through CTI. After receiving her certification in 2015, she has helped women heal through toxic relationship patterns.